WEEK ONE:
TAKING OUR FORMATION SERIOUSLY
Today, it seems people are more formed by the world we live in than Jesus, and embrace a shallow discipleship to Him, or false version of discipleship to something or someone else. As a church community, we must resolve to close the gap between what we are experiencing in our culture and what Jesus actually offers through discipleship to Him. This involves taking our formation seriously.
Jesus has invites us on a journey of whole life transformation. He desires to transform our minds to believe what He believed, our character to act as He acted, our relationships to love as He loved, our practices to live as He lived, our service to minister as He ministered, and our influence to lead as He led. To that end as a church we are embracing 3 shifts in our approach to our formation.
1. From unintentional to intentional
Spiritual growth is a journey, not a quick fix. Unlike the instant healing of physical ailments, the transformation of character and the shedding of sinful habits is a gradual process. Engaging in spiritual disciplines, or practices, is how we intentionally participate in our spiritual formation.
2. From selective to holistic
Discipleship begins where we are most undiscipled. True discipleship does not focus solely on our strengths or the areas where we feel comfortable. Instead, it challenges us to confront and grow in the areas where we are most unlike Jesus. The story of the rich young ruler (Mark 10:17-22) serves as a powerful reminder that Jesus calls us to address our deepest attachments and idols. Our discipleship must be comprehensive, leaving no room for selective obedience or the rationalisation of sin.
3. From shallow to deep
The heart of the matter is the matter of the heart. True change goes beyond mere external conformity to moral standards; it requires a transformation at the level of the heart. This transformation involves a shift from self-centeredness to God-centeredness, from serving our own interests to embodying the love and character of Jesus.
Our hearts are the wellspring of life (Proverbs 4:23). A transformed heart naturally produces righteous behaviour, not as a forced effort but as the fruit of a life rooted in God's love and grace. The invitation to discipleship is an invitation to a radical heart change—a change that cannot be achieved through human effort alone but through the renewing work of the Holy Spirit. It's about becoming new creations in Christ, with hearts alive to God and His purposes.
Discussion Questions:
John Mark Comer says that “If we’re not being intentionally formed by Jesus himself, then it’s highly likely we are being unintentionally formed by someone or something else.” In what ways do you think our culture shapes our approach to discipleship? How has certain cultural influences might conflict with the journey of discipleship to Jesus and how we can navigate these challenges.
How does the concept of moving from unintentional to intentional in our spiritual growth challenge your current approach to discipleship? Can you identify areas in your life where you've been passive or unintentional about your spiritual formation?
Discuss the idea that true discipleship challenges us to grow in areas where we are most unlike Jesus. Why is it important for discipleship to be holistic, addressing every aspect of our lives rather than just the areas we are comfortable with?
How does being part of a church community support your journey of discipleship? Discuss the role of community in closing the gap between shallow cultural experiences and what Jesus offers through discipleship.
“Ultimately each church will be evaluated by only one thing, it’s disciples. Your church is only as good as it’s disciples. It does not matter how good your praise, preaching, programs or property are. If your disciples are passive, needy, consumeristic, and not moving in the direction of radical obedience, your church is not good.” - Neil Cole. Pastor Andre ended the sermon with sharing this quote that has personally impacted his life and ministry. Reflect on this quote and share your personal reflections/insights.